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This
meditation process is good to induce relaxation response.
Plan to make meditation
a regular part of your daily routine. Set aside 10 to 20 minutes each
day at the same time, if possible. Before breakfast is a good time.
Choose a quiet spot
where you will not be disturbed by other people or by the telephone.
Sit quietly in a comfortable position. Eliminate distractions and interruptions
during the period you'll be meditating. Commit yourself to a specific
length of time and try to stick to it.
Pick a focus word
or short phrase that's firmly rooted in your personal belief system.
A non-religious person might choose a neutral word like "one",
"peace", or "love". Others might use the opening
words of a favorite prayer from their religion such as "Hail Mary
full of Grace", "I surrender all to you", "Hallelujah",
"Om", etc.
Close your eyes.
This makes it easy to concentrate. Relax your muscles sequentially from
head to feet. This helps to break the connection between stressful thoughts
and a tense body. Starting with your forehead, become aware of tension
as you breathe in. Let go of any obvious tension as you breathe out.
Go through the rest of your body in this way, proceeding down through
your eyes, jaws, neck, shoulders, arms, hands, chest, upper back, middle
back and midriff, lower back, belly, pelvis, buttocks, thighs, calves
and feet.
Breathe slowly and
naturally, repeating your focus word or phrase silently as you exhale.
Assume a passive attitude. Don't worry about how well you're doing.
When other thoughts come to mind, simply say, "Oh, well," and gently
return to the repetition. Continue for 10 to 20 minutes. You may open
your eyes to check the time, but do not use an alarm.
After you finish:
Sit quietly for a minute or so, at first with your eyes closed and later
with your eyes open. Do not stand for one or two minutes.
Plan for a session
once or twice a day.
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